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Work Through Career Regret
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I've built genuine relationships and mentors who open doors I couldn't open alone.
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Work Through Career Regret
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A career of moves and living between worlds has cost my family and my roots, and I'm asking what I truly served and what it cost.
A career of seeing the worst has hardened me, and as I near the end I'm reckoning with what the work took and whether it was worth it.
A peer I started with at the same level is now significantly ahead — in title, scope, or income. I have watched the divergence without fully understanding why it happened.
A significant portion of my professional expertise is in an area being disrupted or automated. The skills I have built carefully over years are becoming less valuable. I have not fully addressed what this means.
As a senior IC I can't turn my expertise into real influence.
At a clear fork years ago I chose the practical path over the one I actually wanted, and I have lived inside that choice ever since. The sensible option was not wrong exactly, but I can feel the life I traded away to make it.
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